Tell Your Story: The Narrative Compass

You've lived a life. It's rich with moments of joy, hard-won wisdom, hidden conflicts, and quiet awakenings. But what if you could do more than just remember? What if you could become the author of your own story, not just a character within it? This is the heart of biographical coaching with the Narrative Compass.

This program is a dedicated journey to unearth the meaning in your life's events and articulate a narrative that feels authentic, purposeful, and true. It's about moving from a life that happened to a story you own.

How We'll Work Together: Your Journey with the Narrative Compass

As your biographical coach, I will guide you through a structured, yet deeply personal, process. This isn't a race to the finish line or a rigid curriculum. It’s a reflective practice designed for depth, not speed. Our work together will be guided by the "five directions" of the Narrative Compass, allowing you to explore your life story in a holistic, non-linear way.

• North: Core Identity. We’ll begin by exploring the roles and labels you’ve worn throughout your life—those given to you by others and those you adopted yourself. The goal isn’t to find a single, definitive label, but to understand who you believed you were and who you are becoming beneath the masks.

• East: Moments of Awakening. We will pinpoint the "lightning strikes" of your life—the shifts and turning points that redefined your path. These aren't always dramatic; sometimes the most powerful awakenings are subtle, like a quiet realization in a grocery store aisle, yet they change you permanently.

• South: Inner Conflict. This is where we dive into the depths of your story—the internal shadows and contradictions you've wrestled with. We’ll explore the emotional patterns that have defined you and the parts of yourself you’ve hidden away, not to fix them, but to see and understand them with compassion.

• West: Gifts & Legacy. This direction is about honoring what you've gained through challenge and what you are now ready to give forward. We will identify the wisdom carved by your experiences and define your legacy not by what you leave behind, but by how you walk through the world right now.

• Center: The Inner Author. We conclude by finding the thread that holds it all together—your unique voice and meaning. This is the process of moving from a story that happened to you, to a story you've chosen to author yourself.

We'll use a combination of reflective questioning, writing exercises, and dialogue to articulate your story. The process is a spiral, not a straight line; we'll return to these themes again and again, finding new insights each time.

The Difference Between Biographical Coaching and Talk Therapy

Biographical coaching is not a substitute for traditional therapy. Think of it this way: a therapist helps you heal from the wounds of the past, while a biographical coach helps you build a narrative from those experiences.

• Therapy often focuses on addressing emotional dysregulation, trauma, and mental health issues to help you function more effectively in the present.

• Biographical coaching, by contrast, is a forward-facing, creative discipline. It presumes a certain level of stability and focuses on the meaning-making process of your life. It’s about crafting a coherent narrative, refining your voice, and shaping your legacy, drawing from the literary craft of memoirists like Mary Karr and the practical, truth-telling standards of biographers like Nigel Hamilton. The work we do is literary and reflective, transforming raw experience into a compelling story.

The Value of Your Story: Leaving Your Mark

The urge to record one’s life is ancient, a fundamental human impulse stretching back to cave paintings and oral sagas. As Nigel Hamilton notes in

Biography: A Brief History, people derive their sense of belonging and confidence from a sense of personal connection and inheritance. Your story is a vital part of that legacy, for yourself and for others. It matters. Your voice matters.

As the program progresses, you may feel moved to shape your reflections into a tangible form, whether it's a private keepsake memoir, a legacy letter for a loved one, or a recorded storytelling session for your family. The act of telling your story is a profound gift, not just to yourself but to those who will follow.

In the end, this journey isn’t about perfect prose or a finished book. You are not just writing about yourself. You are writing yourself forward.

Ready to Begin Your Journey?

Let’s talk about your story. Schedule a free, 15-minute consultation to learn more about the Narrative Compass program and how I can help you write your very own biography.

Did You Know The Narrative Compass Now Has a Self Study Program?

You carry a lifetime inside you: moments of clarity, deep conflicts, and hard-won wisdom. You know your story matters, but turning that vast, messy archive of memory into a finished, meaningful biography can feel overwhelming.

You're stuck in the "middle" of your life-story. You have the raw material, but you lack the compass, the clarity, and the conviction to finish it.

The Narrative Compass Self-Study Program is the map and the mentor you need. We give you a proven structure to go beyond mere chronology, transforming reflection into profound narrative.